~ Happy reading ~
This made my day (it's early here and I just read it while drinking my morning tea):
"When I sleep with someone, I need it to mean something. I need to know someone would look me in the eye and be there the next day, and the next week, and the next month. I'm not stupid - I know it doesn't always mean forever, but you have to at least think it could be forever. There's a possibility of forever before you even touch, or you're just touching to hurt yourself."
Well said Dawson. Good luck with this embeded man.